Thursday, August 05, 2004

courting destruction

i read a friends blog today and he said somthing about, having driven a girl back to her house.
and than thinking about her on the way home. and i was thinking,' isn't he supposed to be a reformed christian, believing in courting, and chaperoned outings? it really disapointed me.
to think that just because he is away from home, he can drive girls around in his car ( plus i thought his car was back at his house in Canada, right now he is in the U.S.A.
let me post a little about my belifes in courting.
if somone whanted to court my sister ( this is hypothetical)
1 sophia would have to be at least 17
2 he would have to ask my mom if he could ask sophia to court him
3 all outings would have to be chaperoned
4 no touching
5 never aloud to be alone together, ever!
6 he would have to ask my mom, every time he whanted to take her out.
( the reason i say he'd have ask my mom, is because my dad is dead.) ;)
it has already been 5 years since his passing. :!
love in christ ><>
synthea

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

hmm alrighty then...

Anonymous said...

aww come on say who you are

thea

its that easy :)

thea

Anonymous said...

i think u hav 2 remember that there r various different 'reformed christians', and various different views on 'courtship'... not everyone abides by ur listings, tho the concept may be great... :-o

Anonymous said...

oh you are right i guess i had just assumed, because he goes to the same church as us, that they courted the same way, and had also assumed that thier father was strickt, sorry if i assumed wrong :) No hard fealings?

thea

Thea said...

oh my LOL, well tho no one will see this, i guess it's alright to say,
1sophia is and she is "C"ing
2 he asked mom
3 all outings are chaperoned
4 they r alowed to touch
5 they don't always ask to go out